A large percentage of women don't have orgasms during intercourse.  Vibrators and other toys are often the most consistent orgasm givers for many women (I like the store: PleasureMeNow dot com). Many men don't recognize how much foreplay and then sexual stimulation most women need. Most men don't understand women have two kinds of orgasms: clitoral and g-spot (sometimes called vaginal orgasm).  Most couples need to communicate more and experiment more to find the sexual stimulation type, intensity and amount they both need.  We women need to learn about our complex sexual bodies.  At least it fun work!   

My wife masturbates often but she does not tell me about it, proving that she finds it a taboo subject, however she organised our new bathroom this year with a nice big walk in shower, to my advantage she had all the doors including the bathroom door fitted with a glass fancy panel with a pull down blind on the bathroom. So a few months ago after this new bathroom was finished I popped upstairs for something about 15 mins after my wife had gone for her shower when i noticed the small gap between the blind and the door, I kneel down and was so shocked to see her leaning on the tiled wall almost facing me with the new powershower head forcing water on her clit, I became erect so quickly as I watched her have orgasm after orgasm her moans were getting me even closer to the point where I also started to masturbate, so I now look forward to her evening shower so much, should I tell her or just keep enjoying the show. 

WTF? This is your wife?
Good to see you are both so open and honest with each other...

For some reason, I haven't been able to get off anywhere other than in the shower. The technique above of using the faucet works very well, though it's kind of awkward to lay down in the tub. But whenever I go for fingers or anything, I just end up feeling dumb. I just don't turn myself on, I guess.

Even if it didn't get me off, I'd do the faucet thing anyway because it's the only way I can feel like my pussy's really clean, inside and out (ha!). Sometimes I'll also use soap on the outside of my pussy, but I have to wash it off quick because it "tastes" funny...any girl who's washed her pussy knows what I mean.

So yeah...my point was the faucet thing is good for keeping yourself clean, too.

when i fingering or have sex with my g/f, shes has those clitoral orgasms, me and her do take showers together, would that shower massager really work?