Valentine Day ideas <3

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Re: Valentine Day ideas <3

February 8, 2010, 10:01:33 AM (#10)

Hey - welcome to SP, Liberated!

It is possible to do something special for your partner without engaging in activities you actively dislike. Indeed, my SO gets really upset when he finds out that I'm "just putting up with" anything sexual. He considers it an enormous turn-off.

I suppose I'm lucky - some guys would probably be turned on by coercing a woman to do something she was uncomfortable with (I know my ex did).

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Re: Valentine Day ideas <3

February 8, 2010, 10:53:47 AM (#11)

Quoted from: Liberated - February 8, 2010, 07:24:06 AM

Don't ever do anything you are not comfortable doing.

Yes. Getting physically or emotionally hurt by doing something you don't want to do is not "being selfish".

Being selfish is manipulating someone to do something they don't want to do under the guise of being a giving person. It's bullshit.

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Re: Valentine Day ideas <3

February 8, 2010, 05:09:34 PM (#12)

I agree with you both n and jj. And thank you for the Welcome.

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Re: Valentine Day ideas <3

February 8, 2010, 05:43:28 PM (#13)

Quoted from: Liberated - February 8, 2010, 07:24:06 AM

What about a nice massage?

that is what hitman was talking about,
internal anal massage.

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Re: Valentine Day ideas <3

February 8, 2010, 06:15:18 PM (#14)

Quoted from: TN_Scooter - February 8, 2010, 05:43:28 PM

that is what hitman was talking about,
internal anal massage.

I don't know if he would want one, but she could allways offer to give him one I guess. Wink

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Re: Valentine Day ideas <3

February 9, 2010, 03:37:11 AM (#15)

Quoted from: Luckoftheirish - February 7, 2010, 12:47:42 PM

Any other ideas?

Thanks N, and as for you others, ha I'm not a fan of anal..I've never tried and I probably won't do that, especially early in the relationship. I don't understand why guys think that is so hot, what exactly is so great about it?

It's a tighter hole so the man feels more sensations. The woman (usually) is either neutral about it or turned off by it. A very small percentage enjoy anal, and an even smaller percentage than that claim to have 'anal orgasms', which is understandable seeing as there doesn't seem to be a scientific explanation to for it.

I would enjoy mostly getting stoned (a lot) and going 69 position for as long as it takes to get me off Cheesy

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Re: Valentine Day ideas <3

February 9, 2010, 08:51:15 AM (#16)

Quoted from: Prankish - February 9, 2010, 03:37:11 AM

The woman (usually) is either neutral about it or turned off by it.

Bullshit...I know plenty of women that love it...

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Re: Valentine Day ideas <3

February 9, 2010, 09:19:42 AM (#17)

Quoted from: Prankish - February 9, 2010, 03:37:11 AM

N, by going from your first post in this thread sounds like you know how to push the right buttons on a man Cool

Why, thank you, sir. I like to *think* I do, anyhow Wink

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Re: Valentine Day ideas <3

February 9, 2010, 08:55:11 PM (#18)

Quoted from: N - February 9, 2010, 09:19:42 AM

Why, thank you, sir. I like to *think* I do, anyhow Wink

oh cum on N...
dont be so modest.
you KNOW you do.
and very well, at least in my opinion.

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