Energy Vampires? Necklover's opinion? And others?

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[kalia]

What does someone mean when they describe themselves as like an energy vampire?  When they claim they feel they get energy from their sexual partner when that partner comes and that they return it when they come themselves?  BTW, this may be related specifically to oral sex - or not, I'm not sure.

Necklover - you kind of describe something similar in a recent post about spiders, so I know you feel something similar to what was described.  Help me understand more about this?  Thanks.

[sexygothicchick]

i live with a energy vampier! it's a person that sucks the energy from some one with out the person knowing it.......or they know it and they get a major boost from it and leavs the other person drained......some times if they continue to drain that person they can die.......

there are ways to protect your self! look on google under auras!

good luck hun!

[kalia]

I know there is a common meaning for "energy vampire" but I'm trying to figure out if this is a bit different when it's sexual energy they are referring to?  And if their concern is to return that energy? 

[Ann]

I've never heard the term. But after thinking about it I believe my bf might be one.

Ocassionally during foreplay he'll go down on me and make me cum multiple times. Maybe 4-6 times and licking me hard through each one. At the end when he's taking me - my body feels like a wet noodle and he's like a sailor on shore leave. Afterwards when I stand up, my knees are wobbly and I feel light headed as though completely drained. Similar to the feeling you get if you sit up too fast after donating a pint of blood only worse.

Definitely some kind of energy transfer going on there. LOL!

[NeckLover]

I love the question! 

I too have often wondered if there was a connection to what I have felt inside to what some people call a Psi Vampire, a vampire that feeds off the energy of others. To a lot of people, this probably makes absolutely no sense, to others, it makes a lot of sense.

Psi Vampires can get their energy from various means. Sometimes it is through intimate contact with their mate, sometimes it is just being around other people, and some claim they can get energy by asteral projections, meaning they just think about someone and get energy that way. I am familiar with the intimate contact method. I have yet to admit that I am a Psi Vampire, but I fit the mold if such a thing exists and I have physical proof. There is something to it.

What Ann talks about in an earlier post above, feeling drained after an encounter with her bf after sex, might be because he is a Psi Vampire. When I have sex with my mate, I feel energized, but she feels weak and tired, and I cannot explain it either (of course I am constantly kissing and softly biting her neck all over! She's not too crazy about my intense neck fetish.).

Why just yesterday I felt the need (a craving) to just cuddle and neck, no sex, and I felt that I really needed to be close to her. I needed physical contact. I can not explain the feeling other than a real need to be with her. Some people may call that a hunger. After an hour of cuddling, which she enjoyed too, I felt completely recharged, but she felt weak and drained. Did I need her energy? Did I feed on her energy? I needed something, and felt better afterwards, that part is true. After an hour or so, she felt better too and wanted to cuddle again. Her energy had returned. BTW, she doesn't believe in vampires one bit and the only thing my necking does to her neck is tickle a lot. But she can't explain why she feels so drained after we come together either. And if I am not a Psi Vampire (which I'm not sure of either), I don't know why I feel so much better, not weaker, but recharged after coming together with her. If anyone has a better word for it, I would like to hear it.

Scientists claim two people living together will outlive a person who lives alone. There is something that happens to us when we share our lives with another person, or even a pet, but especially if we share our lives with another person. There is something going on here, that I cannot put words to. For example, how do you feel when you and your lover hug? Kiss? Neck? Do you feel warmth come over you? Do you feel good? Some people are extremely sensitive to these feelings. I am very sensitive.

Regarding spiders, the only thing I can say is they are true blood sucking vampires from the insect world. The way they feed is very interesting. First they spin their webs, then when their prey fall victim to their spun web, they rush over and inject them with something that paralyzes them and turns their insides into a soup. Then they drink their meal until all that is left is the victims shell. I am amazed by these insects because they are so different. Some people have called spiders the wolves of the insect world.

Mosquitoes, are another insect blood sucker, or should I say the female mosquito, but she only feeds on blood to fertalize her eggs. Her saliva contains properties that prevent blood clotting, so she can drink and drink her blood until her belly is full. That mosquito bite that itches that's left behind is the reaction left from the mosquitoes saliva.

Did this help?

[NeckLover]

I've never heard the term. But after thinking about it I believe my bf might be one.

Ocassionally during foreplay he'll go down on me and make me cum multiple times. Maybe 4-6 times and licking me hard through each one. At the end when he's taking me - my body feels like a wet noodle and he's like a sailor on shore leave. Afterwards when I stand up, my knees are wobbly and I feel light headed as though completely drained. Similar to the feeling you get if you sit up too fast after donating a pint of blood only worse.

Definitely some kind of energy transfer going on there. LOL!

It sounds like it to me too! A lot of people either don't know or don't admit to being Psi Vampires, also known as energy vampires. I have my doubts too, but nothing else can explain it as well. Why else would you feel so drained after such an encounter? I just love your reply though, very accurate, and good description from the victim's perspective.

 

[loserface]

i dont know what to think about this vampire buisness, mostly because ive never really taken an interest in it or made any real effort to futher educate myself about it, but it does seem very interesting.  id also like to know more, but so far this has been pretty helpful.

[NeckLover]

Thanks for your feedback! Vampires are interesting to different people for different reasons. My interest is purely in the erotic sense. There are web sites that cater to the more die hard vampire fans too, but those tend to be more geared to those who either think they are vampires or those who think vampires are cool monsters and there may be other reasons too. I just love the way vampires seduce, love and feed, anything erotic, and that's how I ended up here on SP  !

[kalia]

Necklover...what he said!  Moi aussi!  My question brought me here too. In fact I googled on it!  LOOOOOVVVVE Google!  Hey, I'm glad you guys think this is interesting too.  I thought it might be a little weird but I am reassured - people here are supportive and open and kind and really really interesting - I'm not getting as much sleep as I used to 'cuz I've gotta check in and see what people are thinking about.  And I'm learning a lot from all of you - and you do make me smile and laugh.

[NeckLover]

Thanks Kalia,

You know, I tend to agree with you on this vampire topic. Not a lot of people share it at the level we do. But everyone is different. People here on SP are some of the most supportive people I have run into on these forums. On some other forums they may not be as supportive, or as open minded, and some people can be just rude. Not here though, (at least not yet) and I have left my self wide open to bashing. So far, only support and shared interests come back here which encourages more communicating among like interests. I think SP has a more mature following. 

So ask away! I would love to hear more from you. And if you are shy, feel welcome to send me an email.

Thanks!